How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 09:33
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What would be the lowest score with 9 strikes and no gutter balls?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Has any man licked his wife's vagina while another man had sex with her?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why am I so afraid that gun owners have set traps to kill me outside my house or my car?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What are the most extreme examples of hypocrisy?
Does not procrastinate.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What is the most craziest dream you ever had?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Why do some men want to have anal sex with women?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What I need from you?
Procrastinates a lot.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How many trans people are lawful gun owners?
Making more friends is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
That's it for today.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.